As a pastor, I hear all kinds of ideas about how to make church and/or the Christian faith more appealling. Some of the more frustrating ideas usually involve copying what another organization or business is doing and apply it to church, as though the transition would be seemless and the application obvious.

The one that I hear the most often is comparing church/youth group/Sunday School participation with participation in sports. Initially the comparison looks pretty appealing. Parents can’t drag their kids to church and don’t push them into various church programming, but they’ll take their kids to the hockey arena at 6am twice a week. I agree that if we could bottle up the enthusiasm that makes kids involve themselves at that level and makes parents support their children without question and apply it to church programming, our numbers would be a lot higher. There are also a number of apt church-team analogies that could be used.

There are however a number of sports realities that are quite unhealthy if applied to a church environment.

  • In a number of ways, sports is a very exclusive atmosphere. Equipment and registration costs don’t allow for many families to involve their children and individuals who aren’t fit enough, co-ordinated enough, or just plain aren’t interested enough have no place on the sports team, and they often suffer the social consequences for it.
  • The rewards (ie. extra playing time, positions of prominence, or leniency in practices) for athletes are dependant upon attendance at practise, success in games/competitions, and sometimes extra assistance or financial contribution by parents.
  • Initiation (where permitted by law[yers]) involves public humiliation for newcomers.
  • Fans (often parents) become verbally abusive to other players, coaches, the officials, and often other fans over the events of the competition.
  • Which of those aspects of sports am I supposed to apply to my youth group/church programming? Does any of them even come close to having a scriptural basis?

    Everyone is welcome at church. There is no punishment for lack of involvement and there are no special rewards given for extra participation. Newcomers are accepted with open arms in celebration. The community builds up, rather than tears down.

    Okay, so I got a bit optimistic there. Sure there are lots of those problems in today’s churches. Some people fit in a lot better because of their personality, bloodlines or pocketbooks. Certain people are invited to participate more fully because of their other “achievements”. Newcomers have difficult times being noticed, let alone feeling welcomed. Communities also thrive on gossip and judgmental behaviour. That model of church is maybe what a lot of people are familiar with. And that model is already pretty close to the sports model, but that model is flawed.

    I love sports, don’t get me wrong. I love watching and playing sports, so I understand the draw. I just don’t want my church running like that. Some teams enjoy every game equally, win or lose, and every member is welcomed and uplifted. However, that is model is generally found in women’s recreational sports. As an athlete or a spectator, I wouldn’t be interested in watching that kind of sports either. As a Christian, I’m also not interested in participating in a community where anything other than grace dictates whether or not I fit in.